DeadRose

I'm hispanic and my husband is white, I'm 19 years old and he's 29. You guys are a YOUNG COUPLE !! I think he's still trying to figure out what to do with his life. that's exactly why you are supposed to figure out what YOU want to accomplish as a person and with your future and then you can think about marriage, and yeah I know the theory, but that's exactly the opposite of what i did! The good thing here is that my husband finished his school long time ago and has been working in a job that he loves for 3 years! while I'm still in school, and he supports me.
My advise for you is, if you love him, don't give up that easily!, encourage him to find something he might feel good doing or working with. How about going to the gym together instead of starve himself, exercising does not just keep your body healthy but it energizes you and I think you can accomplish a lot more!!

I don't know if he REALLY needs to lose weight or he THINKS he needs to... i think gym works for both, but with the second one, you might one encourage him to go consult a doctor or something, because it might be something mental, and more serious than what you think.