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cao428 · 08-04-2008, 11:24 PM

Hi venussky,

It seems odd to me too that he would be talking to her at a time you aren't around. I would nip it in the bud right away if I were you before it goes any further. She is an EX, and if he wants to talk to her it should be when you are around, not secretively. The important thing to notice is, is he any less responsive to you emotionally or sexually?

Trust your gut reaction. It has served me right as I caught my husband of 26 years together in some kind of emotional envolvement with another.

I would wait until the two of you are having time together and calmly look at him in the eyes and just mention in a non-attacking way you happened to notice he changed his password and ask him why. See what he says...ask if you can have his new one as you both have shared in the past. Start SLOW and just be aware. Wish you the best!

08-04-2008, 11:24 PM	#3 (permalink)
cao428 Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: North East USA Posts: 141	Re: Husband Writing ex-Gf on Myspace at 4am. Hi venussky, It seems odd to me too that he would be talking to her at a time you aren't around. I would nip it in the bud right away if I were you before it goes any further. She is an EX, and if he wants to talk to her it should be when you are around, not secretively. The important thing to notice is, is he any less responsive to you emotionally or sexually? Trust your gut reaction. It has served me right as I caught my husband of 26 years together in some kind of emotional envolvement with another. I would wait until the two of you are having time together and calmly look at him in the eyes and just mention in a non-attacking way you happened to notice he changed his password and ask him why. See what he says...ask if you can have his new one as you both have shared in the past. Start SLOW and just be aware. Wish you the best!