venussky

As I mentioned, we are building our own home completely by ourselves which adds a lot of stress to my husband's life as it does mine. I've been told by so many people that if you can stay together through building, you're on pretty solid ground. We are almost finished. Thank the stars! He is very moody, emotionally abusive in a sense that anything I suggest or say, he takes as criticism and calls me names or storms off (often times while our daughter and friends are present). I know it is the stress so I ignore it the best I can but I know if it doesn't end with the completion of the house, then it is something else...

Sexually he is right about the same as always if not more demanding. So I can't think of anything in that area that is hurting, lol. It's just the sneaking around with emails, etc. I don't think I can confront him directly about the changed password as like I said, he is pretty defensive about everything right now due to the house and would get very upset. It's not worth the stress, I don't think. I'm just very hurt by his behavior and wanted to know that I am right in feeling this way and get some suggestions from people who have maybe experienced this type of stuff before.

Thanks to both of you!