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827Aug · 08-05-2008, 07:56 AM

The additional information is helpful. How long have you been married? As I look back in my 24 year relationship with my husband I can now see HOW our marriage deteriorated. Your husband's behavior, as you described it, tells me more. I was like that at times. Through counseling and reading The Five Love Languages, I understand more about my behavior. Although my husband won't admit it, he had his episodes too. Too make a long story short, those outburst of emotions were the result of far more. My husband wasn't speaking my love language and I wasn't speaking his. Over the years we gradually began to grow apart. I'm sorry to say this, but that's what I see in your posts (very early stage).

As for the house building, I feel for you. I've been there too. We built our "dream house" in 2000. Since I did all the contracting, my husband didn't get that involved in it. However, like everything else, the house is an issue too. He says it has always been "my" house. I've never felt that way though.

08-05-2008, 07:56 AM	#5 (permalink)
827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 258	Re: Husband Writing ex-Gf on Myspace at 4am. The additional information is helpful. How long have you been married? As I look back in my 24 year relationship with my husband I can now see HOW our marriage deteriorated. Your husband's behavior, as you described it, tells me more. I was like that at times. Through counseling and reading The Five Love Languages, I understand more about my behavior. Although my husband won't admit it, he had his episodes too. Too make a long story short, those outburst of emotions were the result of far more. My husband wasn't speaking my love language and I wasn't speaking his. Over the years we gradually began to grow apart. I'm sorry to say this, but that's what I see in your posts (very early stage). As for the house building, I feel for you. I've been there too. We built our "dream house" in 2000. Since I did all the contracting, my husband didn't get that involved in it. However, like everything else, the house is an issue too. He says it has always been "my" house. I've never felt that way though.