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Amplexor · 08-05-2008, 09:46 AM

Totalcpl (&827Aug)

This must be the double decade marriage in trouble thread. Twenty two years for my wife and I. My best advice Toublecpl is to be consistent in your changes. You have now adopted those changes as a life commitment. Do not expect her to change quickly and be prepared to provide a lot of patience. In addition, get rid of the love log as that would irritate anyone. She will not be very receptive to sexual intimacy unless she feels an emotional connection to you. My wife and I have not had sex in well over a year now but we have improved many aspects of our marriage. My situation has a lot of similarities to yours so again be patient and committed. If you can do those things she will see you are serious about making her happier and she can begin to trust your changes as lasting. I agree with 827Aug, Five Languages is a great book and it really helped me to understand what my wife was missing in our marriage. Spend time with each other as a couple and family. With time things can improve. Good luck

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Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 907	Re: When She Says, "I don't love you anymore." Totalcpl (&827Aug) This must be the double decade marriage in trouble thread. Twenty two years for my wife and I. My best advice Toublecpl is to be consistent in your changes. You have now adopted those changes as a life commitment. Do not expect her to change quickly and be prepared to provide a lot of patience. In addition, get rid of the love log as that would irritate anyone. She will not be very receptive to sexual intimacy unless she feels an emotional connection to you. My wife and I have not had sex in well over a year now but we have improved many aspects of our marriage. My situation has a lot of similarities to yours so again be patient and committed. If you can do those things she will see you are serious about making her happier and she can begin to trust your changes as lasting. I agree with 827Aug, Five Languages is a great book and it really helped me to understand what my wife was missing in our marriage. Spend time with each other as a couple and family. With time things can improve. Good luck __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.