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Dancing Nancie · 08-05-2008, 11:53 AM

I had something similar happen. My wife changed the passord to an email account that we both used for mostly spam reasons. I signed up for something I wasn't sure was legit and when I went to check the password was changed. After asking her about it I found out she had opened a facebook account with that address. She never really used the account, and it seems harmless on the surface. However I have had a tough time understanding what it was she was looking for. After telling her about it, she just said well she never used the facebook acount so it shouldn't be a big deal. It does make me wonder still what it is she is looking for outside our marriage that she can't find within.

I think that seeing your husband emailing behind your back is what hurts here, not what was said. Has this affected your level of trust with him?

08-05-2008, 11:53 AM	#7 (permalink)
Dancing Nancie Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 148	Re: Husband Writing ex-Gf on Myspace at 4am. I had something similar happen. My wife changed the passord to an email account that we both used for mostly spam reasons. I signed up for something I wasn't sure was legit and when I went to check the password was changed. After asking her about it I found out she had opened a facebook account with that address. She never really used the account, and it seems harmless on the surface. However I have had a tough time understanding what it was she was looking for. After telling her about it, she just said well she never used the facebook acount so it shouldn't be a big deal. It does make me wonder still what it is she is looking for outside our marriage that she can't find within. I think that seeing your husband emailing behind your back is what hurts here, not what was said. Has this affected your level of trust with him?