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venussky · 08-05-2008, 12:40 PM

[quote=I think that seeing your husband emailing behind your back is what hurts here, not what was said. Has this affected your level of trust with him?[/QUOTE]

Oh yes, it has comepletely changed my level of trust in him. A friend of mine suggested I start getting up earlier as he does and just hang out with him. I tried that today. HAHA Sad, I know. But there I was at 5am sitting on the sofa with him and he's just wondering why in the H*** I'm awake. I think sometimes I should do this anyway, getting up when he does for work, even if I don't go into work until much later. This way we see eachother at the beginning of our day and the ending. It also doesn't give him the chance to sneak behind my back.

I emailed this ex of his as she is/was one of my friends also. It's so nice that she has not even responded after 24 hours and has read my email. Makes me worry even more.

I will get this book you are all mentioning. I'm checking Amazon right now.

Thanks so much!

08-05-2008, 12:40 PM	#8 (permalink)
venussky Registered User Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 7	Re: Husband Writing ex-Gf on Myspace at 4am. [quote=I think that seeing your husband emailing behind your back is what hurts here, not what was said. Has this affected your level of trust with him?[/QUOTE] Oh yes, it has comepletely changed my level of trust in him. A friend of mine suggested I start getting up earlier as he does and just hang out with him. I tried that today. HAHA Sad, I know. But there I was at 5am sitting on the sofa with him and he's just wondering why in the H*** I'm awake. I think sometimes I should do this anyway, getting up when he does for work, even if I don't go into work until much later. This way we see eachother at the beginning of our day and the ending. It also doesn't give him the chance to sneak behind my back. I emailed this ex of his as she is/was one of my friends also. It's so nice that she has not even responded after 24 hours and has read my email. Makes me worry even more. I will get this book you are all mentioning. I'm checking Amazon right now. Thanks so much!