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iheartmywife · 08-05-2008, 12:57 PM

i know that im still young. everyone keeps telling me that. i wish there was like a roadmap or a guideline to follow when things like this happen. im use to depending on what my head says. now my heart has taken full controll of everything.
since my stand on things im getting the cold shoulder. i am going to give her some time and space to come around. im not going to push any discussion on her. however if she thinks not talking to me will somehow break me then she is wrong. when im ready i can be very stubborn. i dropped her off to the gym today on the way to work. we said like 5 words to each other. naturally me asking how was work and me getting a response fine. not another word for another 20 minutes. we could be very stubborn. a bad habit im trying to break out of. and a habit she wont admit she has. the only good thing about it was when she got out the car she said bye and gave me a kiss (on the lips). score one for the home team. if she didnt want to trust me she wouldnt. however she usually calls me to tell me some antics bout the gym or how the instructor killed her today or how the bus ride back sucked but she hasnt called. im not sweating it. i no she is upset. not to sound bad or anything but i dont care.
lmao what i know is after this long day of work its a guarentee that there will be a hot plate at home for me. regardless of how mad she is with me since we got our place she has cooked. i guess i could say thats one thing she changed. we have been married for two years and lived with her mother for all of that time. we were tryin to save up for a house. housing market sucks - go figure. but she didnt make an effort to cook. im a vegetarian and she isnt. so she had to learn to cook the things i liked. and in turn i swallowed some of the most disgusting things ever. with a smile on my face. y. because i appeciated it. in return when we went on vacation for our anniversary i ate meat. man o man that first night was horrible. me and the toilet were best of buds but i kept at it until vaca was over. im so happy its over and im back to my soy and stuff.
i dont know y im tellin you guys this. i guess its like my form of therapy. typing it out helps me clear my head.

08-05-2008, 12:57 PM	#14 (permalink)
iheartmywife Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: nyc Posts: 92	Re: In need of some serious advice i know that im still young. everyone keeps telling me that. i wish there was like a roadmap or a guideline to follow when things like this happen. im use to depending on what my head says. now my heart has taken full controll of everything. since my stand on things im getting the cold shoulder. i am going to give her some time and space to come around. im not going to push any discussion on her. however if she thinks not talking to me will somehow break me then she is wrong. when im ready i can be very stubborn. i dropped her off to the gym today on the way to work. we said like 5 words to each other. naturally me asking how was work and me getting a response fine. not another word for another 20 minutes. we could be very stubborn. a bad habit im trying to break out of. and a habit she wont admit she has. the only good thing about it was when she got out the car she said bye and gave me a kiss (on the lips). score one for the home team. if she didnt want to trust me she wouldnt. however she usually calls me to tell me some antics bout the gym or how the instructor killed her today or how the bus ride back sucked but she hasnt called. im not sweating it. i no she is upset. not to sound bad or anything but i dont care. lmao what i know is after this long day of work its a guarentee that there will be a hot plate at home for me. regardless of how mad she is with me since we got our place she has cooked. i guess i could say thats one thing she changed. we have been married for two years and lived with her mother for all of that time. we were tryin to save up for a house. housing market sucks - go figure. but she didnt make an effort to cook. im a vegetarian and she isnt. so she had to learn to cook the things i liked. and in turn i swallowed some of the most disgusting things ever. with a smile on my face. y. because i appeciated it. in return when we went on vacation for our anniversary i ate meat. man o man that first night was horrible. me and the toilet were best of buds but i kept at it until vaca was over. im so happy its over and im back to my soy and stuff. i dont know y im tellin you guys this. i guess its like my form of therapy. typing it out helps me clear my head.