Originally Posted by iheartmywife

i can only tell you from my stand point and how things worked out with me. trial separation doesnt work. we were separated for about a month and all that happened was the person that was off to the side waiting was able to step in my place. i in the end had to fight like hell to bring us back together. we arnt completely there but its a work in progress.
i think you need to ask what would he need for him to fight for the marraige because one hand cant clap. you have to work together. at one point my wife gave up on me. told me she didnt love me and that she didnt want to be with me. after 7 years of knowing her i knew she didnt mean it. i knew she still loved me. when i had asked her if she wanted a divorce she said no just separation. well that didnt work out.
anyway you guys have been together for 10 years. out of everyone that you know you two know each other better that you know yourself. like im sure you know when he is lying or not telling you the whole truth. or when hes stressed and putting on a front.
but he needs to find a reason to fight for what he has. and what sucks about the whole thing is that you cant give it to him he has to find it himself.