MarkTwain

In that case you have got a job on. Get him to talk about it. If he never initiated, that would probably make you feel un-sexy. He sounds most unusual.

I can see you are going to have to make a lot of allowances for him. Still I have seen miracles in my life. I know a druggy who gave up drugs, became a health freak, and won't even take milk in his tea! In fact he only drinks warm water now.