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827Aug · 08-05-2008, 09:43 PM

Speaking from experience, I wouldn't say a word to your husband regarding the password or the communications with the old girlfriend. It appears innocent at this point; and that's exactly where you want it to stay! If you confront him, it will only push him in HER direction. Sure, keep an eye on what he's doing but don't push him away. I've learned this the hard way. Once you get the book we've recommended, you can use some of those techniques to head off the problem. Try not to be angry and controlling (I know it's hard); it will work against you at this point.

08-05-2008, 09:43 PM	#15 (permalink)
827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 258	Re: Husband Writing ex-Gf on Myspace at 4am. Speaking from experience, I wouldn't say a word to your husband regarding the password or the communications with the old girlfriend. It appears innocent at this point; and that's exactly where you want it to stay! If you confront him, it will only push him in HER direction. Sure, keep an eye on what he's doing but don't push him away. I've learned this the hard way. Once you get the book we've recommended, you can use some of those techniques to head off the problem. Try not to be angry and controlling (I know it's hard); it will work against you at this point.