gloomyshrooms

Hello everyone, sorry to bother but Ive been married for about 8months now and kinda ran into this problem...

Well my name is Mike. me in my wife got married last year in DEC. And well over the course in time. time and time again I cought my wife having internet affairs with other guys. And let me add this quick note in here. they are not random strangers. They are ex-boyfriends ex-people she was close too.

Now Im in the military she moved to live with me here in germany So many tell me "oh its harmless shes 1000s of miles away."

But despite on how much I tell her to stop and quit it it bothers me She keeps doing it. This last time I catch her doing it again [last week]

In the past I found her calling some other dude her hubby. And tat she loves him. that guy was the first one. Then it happened again. After the 2nd time the trust I had for her was gone. So I installed a key logger on her computer to see what she was doing. Witch is how I cought her these last 2 times. I dot sit at home and check it every day. Just ounce a month or when she starts acting strange again.

And this isnt little flirting, its like crazy stuff talking about what they want to do together and talking about what they did in the past. It bothers the hell out of me. And every now and then shell do it again... Im sorry if my post is all spread out and not formed right just this last time I found out I told her I was thinking about divorcing her because I shouldnt have to monitor what she does all the time and theres point in being married if you dont make an effort to build my trust for back up.

this last even I told her how I found out about her cheating on me. And now she makes it seem like Im the one at fault. When I know Im not.. If anyone has any advice for or wants to know more info, just ask.. Again sorry if I leave out some details I cant really think straight atm