justean

well being a mother first before a wife, my children would always come first.
when my hubby and i split in april ( sorting things out now)
we asked the children what they wanted.
ok every thing has to be withinin reason, but we never had n e problems. but then i actively encourage my hubby to see his children, im not one of those that would stop him having contact. this is unfair to all parties involved.
i think you should have contact with your child. i think you should phone and vice versa and why should n e child be taken out of medical aid. its not a priviledge, its a responsibility.
your wife needs to get over herself.
you never know what could happen in the future.
my cousin had one child from previous and also hubby had one from previous, then they had one child together.
honest, my cousin hated his child. its resentment, jealousy and all that. but as a mother with your own child together. you look after your own first. look what happens in the wild.
a female wil usually get rid of an extra to save her own.
n e way. a good few yrs later, her hubbys son was being abused by the mothers boyfriend ( sick goings on) .
they had no choice but to take him on and every moment for years was a loathed moment. it never picked up. but its very hard .