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Mal74 · 02-15-2010, 10:37 AM

Seems to me that this is less about sex and more about communication. I'd get away from all distractions (get a babysitter, leave the house, etc.) and have a heart-to-heart talk about what needs to happen so that EVERYONE gets their needs met.

In my experience men sometimes push for more sex when they are either feeling or afraid of a decline in intimacy. It's silly to speculate based on a message board post but I wonder if some warm & loving communication that is entirely created from the question, "how do we really make this work for both of us" might help.

Note that this is a very different place to come from than "give me sex now," or "stop pestering me for sex all the time." To make this shift work requires a real authenticity and all the risk that entails.

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Mal74 Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 162	Re: Husband wants sex every day. Seems to me that this is less about sex and more about communication. I'd get away from all distractions (get a babysitter, leave the house, etc.) and have a heart-to-heart talk about what needs to happen so that EVERYONE gets their needs met. In my experience men sometimes push for more sex when they are either feeling or afraid of a decline in intimacy. It's silly to speculate based on a message board post but I wonder if some warm & loving communication that is entirely created from the question, "how do we really make this work for both of us" might help. Note that this is a very different place to come from than "give me sex now," or "stop pestering me for sex all the time." To make this shift work requires a real authenticity and all the risk that entails.