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Old 02-15-2010, 01:20 PM   #8 (permalink)
larniegrl
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Default Re: Husband wants sex every day.

Do you think he knows that when he pitches in with chores/dishes/housework/childcare...gives you some freedom on the weekends, or just simply tells you to go take a bath while he puts the kids to bed...will put you in such a sexy mood. Men helping around the house, supporting their wife in her life...is so provocative. It means they truly love and respect us.

Try some positive reinforcement...when he does step in to help. Reward him sexually...over time, he will start putting 2 and 2 together. Taking SHORT breaks (1-2 days at a time) from sex is not a bad thing...but don't expect him to be happy about it, and be VERY mindful of when and how you say no. Men are VERY sexually wired and it is the main way they connect intimately with their lover.

However, he needs to be taking some stress off your shoulders too. This may be a weird question, but do you guys break for your monthly...I know it sounds gross, but that would definitely give you a good 5 days a month for a mental/physical break...and it is a good health excuse. Just a thought...sorry if it grosses anyone out.
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