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scarletblue · 02-16-2010, 08:55 AM

First, let me say that I do not agree with her keeping the emails from you. In my opinion, if you're hiding it, then you know it is wrong on some level.

I do have to say, though. If I read your quote correctly....he is talking about wanting to go on a vacation. He didn't say he wanted to go with your wife. Heck! I would love to go on a vacation too! Lots of people would and just don't have time, money, etc...to do so. My boss and I asked each other how our respective Valentine's Days went. That sure doesn't mean we want to have an affair. The secretary at my hubby's job asked my hubby what he did for Vanlentine's Day. Am I worried? No. It's conversation. "How was your weekend" sort of stuff.

The fact that your wife is keeping this from you is the only problem I see. I think you COULD be reading way to much into this.

02-16-2010, 08:55 AM	#10 (permalink)
scarletblue Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Washington State Posts: 455	Re: Confront wife about secret emails First, let me say that I do not agree with her keeping the emails from you. In my opinion, if you're hiding it, then you know it is wrong on some level. I do have to say, though. If I read your quote correctly....he is talking about wanting to go on a vacation. He didn't say he wanted to go with your wife. Heck! I would love to go on a vacation too! Lots of people would and just don't have time, money, etc...to do so. My boss and I asked each other how our respective Valentine's Days went. That sure doesn't mean we want to have an affair. The secretary at my hubby's job asked my hubby what he did for Vanlentine's Day. Am I worried? No. It's conversation. "How was your weekend" sort of stuff. The fact that your wife is keeping this from you is the only problem I see. I think you COULD be reading way to much into this.