iheartmywife

well here's an update. I get up to a text that says the password to our phone account was change. lol. kinda figured that was going to happen. asked for the password and was told no. its all good. If I wanted in I would get in. that's a fact. there is always more than one way to skin a cat. the only thing now is payin the bill. she has locked me out from that so that is her responsibility.
so the arguement goes on for about 3 hours until we both ran out of steam. he earlier than her. told her that I loved her but if ever she felt like she couldn't take it anymore the door is open but it only swings one way. I guess she never though I would say that cause the arguement changed from her being pissed to her just being tired of arguing. I told her I didn't wanna argue but she messed up and she has got to change cause I'm not putting up with it anymore. basically change or leave cause I aint going no where. we then started talking about being disconnected from each other and we missed the time we use to have. sneakin sex and hangin out. that's what we did on vacation. sneak sex in the carribean ocean with people around . by the way easier said than done especially in 4 feet of clear water. and the hanging out. which was great because I forgot how much fun it was going places with her.
when it comes to sex I told her she need to work for my sexy flat ass. did I mention I was at work while arguing on the phone with her. good thing I got my own office. she said she will try. I asked her what turns her on. she said she doesn't no. I didn't pressure it cause I no she still had her defenses up. when everything calmed down we decided to go to dinner. she is going to pick me up from work and take me out. she is going to do the work tonight. she is also going to get the wine that we both like. and if things work out right, we will be very (wink wink) happy at the end of the night. but the rule for tonight is to talk bout anything but our problems. that's gonna take a back seat to us enjoying each others company