Re: As predicted, the argument begins...no sex for Valentines Day
This post has really helped me understand some things.. but what do you do if your H gets frustrated from less sex than he wishes he had with his wife. He doesn't meet his W's needs regularly. He treats her as if his sexual needs aren't met NONE of hers are. And that she deserves to be miserable if his sexual needs aren't met. That makes her want to not please his selfish A$$ at all.
It's hard for me to give even just a tiny bit when he doesn't at all. He tries to tell me that if i will just want to be more sexually active he will be more receptive of me asking him to do things around the house. Once in a blue moon he has done some form of 'housework' without being asked. But is half-a$$ed. He will tidy the livingroom. motly just pick up and throw it into whatever room it belongs in. Laundry is never touched nor are the dishes.. oh and it has to pile up before he will FINALLY take out the trash. Sometimes I'll get tired of looking at it and just take it out my damn self. even if it takes 3 or more trips to the dumpster. It is exhausting...
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