helpless_wife

Thanks for all your replies,

well he does actually do his 'bit' when it comes to looking after the kids. He mainly spends time playing with them after work for a bit and than helping me feed, during dinner. Sometimes I put them to bed , other times it's him. But when he is putting them to bed by that time I am well and truly tiered. He doesn't actually ask me to wait up or anything, he'll just come into bed and off goes his hand 'wondering'.

I kind of feel bad now that I have read other people's opinions.


Also our sex life is pretty unpredictable, as some weeks I will have sex with him whenever his in the mood, other weeks 2-3 times. I know he makes an effort to get up early in the mornings for sex and for that I mostly comply just not all the time. (although if his had sex with me before work his in a real happy mood) And yes when he has had sex in the morning he wants It during night as well.

Also I think I am quite conscience of the children hearing us, were as his not even the slightest bit bothered that they might wake up ( the oldest one) and catch us in the ’act’. Any one else like this after having kids?