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nappilymarried · 08-06-2008, 04:56 PM

well my husband deleted the woman off his messenger list a couple of weeks ago. i hope its off for good. i even spoke to her and she apologized to me. she told me again that she didnt know he was married. i asked her was she in love with my husband and she told me that she never took him seriously. i really dont beleive that because i saw emails from her saying that she loved him and she referred to him as baby or dear. if she didnt love him, there was certainly something there. i never told my husband that i spoke with her because i really didnt want to bring it up again. im hoping all this is behind us. my whole thing is how do i prevent all this from happening again. i know its very likey that it will. if its not with the same women then it could be other women. im not sure what to do. i dont mean to be pessimistic. but i just dont want it to be another 2 years before i know something else is going on.

08-06-2008, 04:56 PM	#15 (permalink)
nappilymarried Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 15	Re: when do you trust again? well my husband deleted the woman off his messenger list a couple of weeks ago. i hope its off for good. i even spoke to her and she apologized to me. she told me again that she didnt know he was married. i asked her was she in love with my husband and she told me that she never took him seriously. i really dont beleive that because i saw emails from her saying that she loved him and she referred to him as baby or dear. if she didnt love him, there was certainly something there. i never told my husband that i spoke with her because i really didnt want to bring it up again. im hoping all this is behind us. my whole thing is how do i prevent all this from happening again. i know its very likey that it will. if its not with the same women then it could be other women. im not sure what to do. i dont mean to be pessimistic. but i just dont want it to be another 2 years before i know something else is going on.