Amalian

Hello,

I just recently married what I believe to be a wonderful man. There's one thing that bothers me about him and that's that he is very difficult to talk to when I am upset about something. If something is bothering me, I want to tell him, but I dread it because I know he will get mad and not want to talk about it, which leaves me feeling worse. I don't yell and I don't accuse. I try to ask him questions which I'm beginning to think that isn't the right way to go either. I just don't know what is. What makes this all worse is that we aren't together. He is in training right now and I know that he's told me that I am his relief from all the stupid things he goes through all day. Since he is in training should i keep myself from telling him something that may have bothered me? If you havent guess we had an argument while chatting online. Almost immediately he wanted to log off. He seems to believe that things can't get resolved this way while i think they can. I don't like leaving things unresolved. I want to fix them right away. I just feel unsupported because of this and I don't know the right way to go about fixing things. I hate that i can't say anything that has upset me without upsetting him!! and then we can't get anywhere.