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justean · 08-07-2008, 03:56 AM

you both have to accept eachothers ways. ask him to be a little more supportive to you .
i have been married for 9.5 yrs and togther 13 yrs.
you have a long way and you might always feel like your banging your head against the wall.
im still trying in my marriage.
you wil have lots of issues along the way.
so you have this one, it is an issue, because it is bothering you.
ask him to learn to deal with things, but you shouldnt really go on about it 10 years later. its very hard living with someone that doesnt let of of past issues.
i dont think you should have to keep most things to yourself.
but i learnt , ok it took me 13 years.
be more laid back. dont question everything, does every thing have to be questioned.
think about things, b 4 u open up. is what is on your mind , really important.
in my opinion we actually talk to much. rather than just sit down and take the moments for what they are.
try and suss out your man.
remember they do think different to us.
my hubby had a one night stand in april 08, were working things through, but because i have changed myself. we have not rowed since a week after the event.
n e thing is worth ago.

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justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 741	Re: Advice please you both have to accept eachothers ways. ask him to be a little more supportive to you . i have been married for 9.5 yrs and togther 13 yrs. you have a long way and you might always feel like your banging your head against the wall. im still trying in my marriage. you wil have lots of issues along the way. so you have this one, it is an issue, because it is bothering you. ask him to learn to deal with things, but you shouldnt really go on about it 10 years later. its very hard living with someone that doesnt let of of past issues. i dont think you should have to keep most things to yourself. but i learnt , ok it took me 13 years. be more laid back. dont question everything, does every thing have to be questioned. think about things, b 4 u open up. is what is on your mind , really important. in my opinion we actually talk to much. rather than just sit down and take the moments for what they are. try and suss out your man. remember they do think different to us. my hubby had a one night stand in april 08, were working things through, but because i have changed myself. we have not rowed since a week after the event. n e thing is worth ago.