talktalk

Tragic :

How dare you spout off all that crap, you are just saying that stuff to make yourself better and that it's a way for being forgiven and not actually doing anything wrong. When in actual fact missus it's women like you who totally destroy what us women who invested everything possible in to their marriage. I am currently perfectly aware of my husband going online on these forums and forming r/ships with women, one inparticular and after using the net to find futher info as I know my husband very well I have discovered lots of things. It is a living nightmare for me. I can't think straight. I am at a standstill. He continues with life like it's always been but deep down I am totally and utterly confused by it all. We are a couple made in heaven, or so I thought. He has probably discovered this w/site years ago, but then forming f/ship with these type of women like you you have a way of grooming them as men think with their privates and easily get excited. You then become of their thinking and then when it all changes. I have no idea what will happen with me as I can not confront him as I don't want anything to change as we have a warm, loving household for our young daughter. If I was to leave him it would totally destroy the family and cause illness to his mum as she could not cope with me leaving. So you think on Miss Innocent when you are talking to 'your friend' and knowing deep down that his wife is hurting in silence, because she will be and she's done nothing wrong. Don't you preach on here, telling us wives to sit back and work out what is wrong and what we our failing to do...we are getting on with life, raising our man's children, running a house, dealing with losing our identities as women as we are now mums...it's dam hard work. I will not be reading your response as I will be unsubscribing from here but I stumbled across your messages of wisdom and felt I had to write to you. You have problems in your life and you need to confront your own before you go on at us. I am a good person with morals, standards and I totally gave everything to my husband. I do things which make me unhappy to make my family happy as that is the way I am. I care so much about everyone and in a way I feel sorry for you as you think you are aware of your actions. You are not. Take heed. One day you will have your commupence. Good luck.