draconis

lovemywife ~ Well atleast we have a starting point. Remember no one can define who you are. You know what the problem is, you want to over come the problems. I think it is all savable.

While you are good or great at sex that alone is never a reason to hold a relation for. Now start to give your wife the other pieces. Make an effort. The priority here would be your kids. They are never going to judge you and are young enough that you are still godlike to them. Foster the love and affection they have to you. I would love to hear everyday how you spent a quality hour with them. I am sure the wife would too. She needs to know you are willing to be more then a lover. She needs to see you can be a great father and a good husband.

I am glad there was a break through last night. I hope things move even further forward. My have a son in the same boat as you. He has Asperger's disorder. It triggers social issues. I understand to a degree what you are going through because I deal with the issues of my son as I stumble alone and try to help him overcome his problems. I understand just how hard it is. It can be done. There is hope.

draconis