Well you are absolutly onto something here, Triton.
Women speak in code, and only they know the rules regarding how to decipher it. And if you ever, EVER get too close to working out the code - they change it.
I am still learning about this. I made a huge mistake in my marriage for years thinking that what my wife said was what she actually meant. Some times it was, but only as regards to trivial things. Also with women, what the say in one moment might be contradicted in the next. I used to think something fishy was going on, but now I realise that whereas with men everything is fixed, women are a moving target.
Here is a silly example. My wife when I first met her said "I only like dark chocolate" So I buy her some... "I wanted xyz brand" - "but that's milk chocolate", I said. "So what?".
It's not that she was being untruthful it's just that woman tend to answer how things are in the moment, and we make the mistake of thinking it is a statement to be valid for all time.
I think the other thing to do, is to try to look at the bigger picture. Try to see the context behind her current sentences.
Well that's my 2 cents.
Shoot me down if you think I'm barking mad
