ljtseng

well honestly if i was in your situation i think i would leave. my husband is extremely apologetic and is very willing to admit he has a problem. he is getting help. we do workbooks together. if he wasnt willing to do these things there's no way i could stay. i think what you are going through is abuse.

if i found pictures and invites from other women on my husbands computer it would crush me. i know logically it seems unreasonable to think you should be the only person he wants to see naked. i think the same thing too. but i cant logically explain away how his actions are making me feel. as OK as i want to think it should be, its just not OK and that's what ive learned to trust.

I know my husband wants to see other women naked. i want to see other men naked. but if spouses act on lustful desires, there's no way marriage can work. Logically you can reason it out so you think its ok, but the emotions never add up. Its just not right and i have no idea why.