carmaenforcer

I completely agree with Triton Having sex with the next woman to really move forward. We put the women we choose to love on a pedestal, try to treat them like a deity and not the flawed humans they really are. We like to think of them as special and it's only when you move on to the next that you see just how not special they were.
The trick is to figure this out before giving them all that power because they don't like giving it up or even sharing it.

I have been cheated on by my now Wife back when we were first dating, I forgave but revoked all trust points and had her start from scratch.
More like your situation though, My ex-girlfriend after 9 years of bring together dropped a bomb on me of wanting to break-up to be with other men. We still lived together for two weeks during which time she came and went as she pleased before changing her mind and asking me back. I was nothing but good to her before then and so she didn't have any way of placing the blame on me although she could have tried to blame my video game playing, weight gain, the hours I worked, the fact that I had a child from a previous relationship, etc, etc.
The point is though, that her cheating is not your fault because there are other ways of dealing with relationship issue, communication, counciling, just leaving the relationship before cheating. No that blaming your short commings is just a idck move, a cowardly thing cheaters do when caught with their pants down and back up against the wall, a last minute blame shift from her mistake.

Man, that whole "in your own bed" thing is too much. I would end a b_tch for that bold of a move, but she isn't worth it, trust me.
Trust me the best revenge is moving on strong, better yourself, get a hot peice to hang on your arm, that kind of thing.
I've had two ex's want to get back with me after I was with someone hotter than them or when they saw me happy again.
That's another part of their sick nature, like cheating to get their way or to prove a point.