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Old 08-07-2008, 03:06 PM   #3 (permalink)
justean
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Default Re: separation is killing me, help!

breaking the promise was the straw that broke the camels back.
i have had 13 yrs of my hubby drinking issues. it has been the bain of my life and it always hurts.
supported him through this and that.
and what do you get in the end- broken promises.
his drinking helped with his one night stand in april 08.
but as a wife i have put up with to many of his demons.
i dont have any of them , no smoke, no alcohol, no drugs, no infidelty.
the only thing my hubby not done was the drugs.
but i am at a point where i accept i love my hubby, but i dont have to put up with his demons.
your wife simply has just had enough.
but she does love you.
im a theatre nurse and i have seen what you have been through many times. its devastating.
my hubbys mate also had a stroke from drinking and he ws on 27 at the time.
he made a full recovery. but he lost it all , time and time again.
you simply have to change .
your wife still seems devoted to you.
stay away from the pub and ppl that lead you astray.
take and do things with your wife, that you have never done b 4 with her.
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