justean

yeh i know where your wife is coming from. but where you come from, is where my hubby has been.
yeh i do think she stil loves u.
she does undertstand you.
shes just really p"""ssed with you and needs a cooling down period.
she probably just cant live with you/ without you situation.
i think you both need that time regarding reconnecting with eachother.
im gonna be honest here, i dont mind n e thing in moderation.
i dont even mind hubby drinking as long as we dont have adverse reactions. i.e kids. family life
at some point you might want to broach the topic of alcohol. really ask her what is acceptable for her.
would she mind if you had the odd one. but do you think youd go of the wagon again. or maybe you wood av to give it up total.
only you and your wife know these issues, because its so personal.
communication is the key here.
obviously you dont rush things.
but when you go out with her.
contact does not have to be touch at this point. it could be just looking at her, take a moment to look into her eyes.
you wil see if they still sparkle.
if she did not want to be around you, i guarantee you, she wouldnt.
you are already having an impact, because she wants to do things with you and for you.
dont give up just yet.
buy her some flowers for when u next c her.