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Old 02-19-2010, 02:43 PM   #3 (permalink)
lillylilac
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Default Re: Alright, that's it. I think I've had it.

Maybe your partner is suffering for postnal depression. It is possible saying as your dd is under 1.
She probably doesnt' feel confident enough about herself and maybe her appearance from maybe weight gain etc.
She maybe tired and feeling lonely and tired.

It is hard to break from a rut, and she maybe doenst know what to do to make the situation better.

She probably feels that she isn't being a good mother if she leaves her daughter with in laws.. (incase the judge her etc...)

Maybe she just need to talk

Her life has totally changed now what she is a mum and she probably doesnt' know where she fits into everything now.

If you still love her you will work through it. Your child is still very young and it is a massive thing for a couple/person to go through. She maybe has underlying fears etc,

I hope you manage to work together to get through this.
wishing you all the best
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