Re: So scared
Hi Leahdorus,
I once had therapy many years ago, and every time I was on the way to the therapist, I got this dread feeling and butterflies in my stomach. I realised many years later that the dread feeling was brought on by simply knowing that going to the therapist was going to make me confront issues that were emotional.
As for your separation, it does not need to happen. All you need to do is play for time. Be nice to hubby, but don't be a floor cloth. Also remember the he is no angel either. Otherwise why would you have strayed? I read in your other thread that sex was a very low priority for him. He needs to address that, so don't think every thing is your fault. I would have done the same in your position. Play for time. Every day you delay is a chance to get closer.
As for meds. I don't know. If you can cope without them, it might be better for your health. A lot of meds. dull the libido - not ideal if you are trying to re-build a relationship.
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