Re: Marriage more like room mates
I feel your pain. My wife in the past has made the comment to me, "it's like we're roommates not husband & wife." Naturally...I really had no idea what she was talking about but recently found out when she told me she didn't love me anymore. Since then...I really made a super effort to change the way I talk, listen & treat her by following the principles in the book "The Five Languages of Love" by Gary Champman.
My wife hasn't responded yet and has not read the book; however, I am optimist that things will work themselves out. I am taking to heart what Jesus said, "Give and it will be given to you."
Good luck and I strongly suggest the book, "The Five Language of Love"...it really opened my eyes to why my wife & I had grown apart.
Best wishes...
Roco
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