justean

ok my hubby has had issues with drink for 13 years.
so i know where your coming from and i know where she is coming from.
it is possible to get her back , but it could take a long time.
you have to be focused. but you have to focus on yourself first.
ok the key here for me in your mail was the
fact - you can make yourself better.
this is your start. so do it.
cure the drinking. by doing this you wil lose weight and wil start to feel better about yourself.
at the moment you have low self-esteem , but you can get it back.
yes you have thrown it away.
but you have to fight , if you want to get it back.
the thought of you being alone is also the key here. simply loneliness, but this also boils down to the fact that you dont like yourself either.
you see in order to live with yourself , you have to like yourself.
start with your self improvement and looking for a job.
keep thinking of those first.
you cannot think of an outcome with your wife, until you have tried these first.