My boyfriend is overseas in the Army. We have been together for almost 2 years. I have been here in MA faithfully waiting for his return, supposed to be next year. Now, he is very good friends with his ex, who is married with a kid. I dont think that matters at all. I think that he still has alot of feelings for her but he says i have nothing to worry about and that i am all wrong. I know all of his passwords online and today read am email between them. He told her that he has been thinking of her lately and even had dreams about her, ones that he shouldnt be having! I am so extremely crushed over this but i cant tell him that i know his passwords because that will ruin evrything and everytime something bad happens he turns it into my fault. I dont know what to to, this is making me physically ill. I ask him to call me all the time but he says hes too tired or its too late but in the email he told her he was going to call her to tell her about this dream. She responded as if she was single! Id love to know what is going on but he usually denies everything. What is happening?