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You HAVE to express what you are feeling to her. You need to find a quiet, undistracted time to do this and in the most loving, gentle way you can, tell her that you hate the distance between the two of you and give her a chance to tell you how she is feeling. LISTEN and give her a chance to share. If she says she can't or won't tell her that you think it is really important but if she needs time to think things over, that's fine. You are willing to talk and listen whenever she is ready.
Best of luck to you!