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draconis · 10-11-2007, 07:49 PM

Sorry to say this. You deserve to feel safe period. He sould be your protector not your scarer. If you can't be safe with him, If he doesn't remember etc he needs help now. His choice of trying suicide was his alone. You need not feel guilt. He needs to learn to control his temper. He needs professional help.

For you I would say follow your gut.

If you leave don't look back.

Stay only if he gets an extreme amount of help. You are in a dangerous situation. If you decide to leave have family there to help you move out and do it while he is at work.

draconis

10-11-2007, 07:49 PM	#9 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,335	Re: 12 years, should I call it quits! Sorry to say this. You deserve to feel safe period. He sould be your protector not your scarer. If you can't be safe with him, If he doesn't remember etc he needs help now. His choice of trying suicide was his alone. You need not feel guilt. He needs to learn to control his temper. He needs professional help. For you I would say follow your gut. If you leave don't look back. Stay only if he gets an extreme amount of help. You are in a dangerous situation. If you decide to leave have family there to help you move out and do it while he is at work. draconis