Originally Posted by publicme

I'm new to this site and I'm amazed at the high quality posts, over and over again.

The site is obviously biased toward making successful relationships and marriages.

But I'm curious whether there are characters here or websites like this one that take the opposite view, that is, espouse things like:

-All relationships eventually go downhill and typically can't be fixed.

-Marriage is an outdated institution and should be avoided.

-We need to learn to live alone and be happy individually.

You know, the really negative perspectives.

I would like to know not out of a deire to play such a role here but to discover a different model for relationships which reduces dramatically the incidences of all the problems people describe here. I mean after all, this forum itself portrays a very negative current situation which people have been working at for many years... fixing marriages and relationships.

Isn't it time for a totally new model?