| | Re: someone help
Slow down tia,
Seems to me there is more and your gut is correct. ok.. Accept that.
If you make idle threats or ones you're not sure you would follow though on you are making sure he will not tell you the truth and you are setting yourself up for more hurt when/if the bad truth really comes out.
Decide if you love him and want to stay with him. Then calmly explain you belive there to be more.. Doesnt matter what his response is,,, YOU belive there is more, you're hurt about it and you want to help regain your relationship to a good point so he is happy. (cause seems he may not be).
Then ask him if he will set aside (stop texting and talking) and work with you to make a nice relationship and get back together close. if he says yes then you can start working on that. If he says no then he and you need to decide if its time to quit.
Honest open communication is very key. You cannot make good decisions without good truthful information.
Settle down , stop the mind running and try to be determined and resolute in what you want to do.. Make the steps to get what you want.
DIE TO THE PAST EVERY MOMENT - TWC