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tia41 · 03-11-2010, 07:20 AM

I spoke to him last night again and I was able to open up more. He told me he was sorry and that I was right in everything I said. He still wants to be married. He knows what he did was wrong. I know that I might have pushed him to talk to this woman because lately I was pushing him away. It started around Valentine's that I was kind of maybe I should say mean and grouchy. I mean I did not even wish him happy valentine's or gave him a kiss and that' s
when he started talking that whole month. Not that it makes it ok that he did that but I guess he felt I was ignoring him. You see we have 4 children and I get so tired doing everything and when he comes home late I just feel drained and so tired that I don't want to be bothered for anything. I didn't think this could happen to us and I did not expect this from him. If I did not see those text messages with my own eyes I would not have believed that my husband was capable of doing something like that. Anyway I hope I can get over this because I went through so much in my life and sometimes I just let the past follow me and that hurts me a lot.

03-11-2010, 07:20 AM	#15 (permalink)
tia41 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 19	Re: someone help I spoke to him last night again and I was able to open up more. He told me he was sorry and that I was right in everything I said. He still wants to be married. He knows what he did was wrong. I know that I might have pushed him to talk to this woman because lately I was pushing him away. It started around Valentine's that I was kind of maybe I should say mean and grouchy. I mean I did not even wish him happy valentine's or gave him a kiss and that' s when he started talking that whole month. Not that it makes it ok that he did that but I guess he felt I was ignoring him. You see we have 4 children and I get so tired doing everything and when he comes home late I just feel drained and so tired that I don't want to be bothered for anything. I didn't think this could happen to us and I did not expect this from him. If I did not see those text messages with my own eyes I would not have believed that my husband was capable of doing something like that. Anyway I hope I can get over this because I went through so much in my life and sometimes I just let the past follow me and that hurts me a lot.