| | Re: Is it really JUST a ring?
I think its a big deal because its very symbolic of how you feel in your marriage. It sounds like he's also treating your marriage like something that's not a big deal. So i think you should not make this about the ring, but rather that he seems nonchalant about your marriage in general.
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