| | Re: Husband cheated and has a baby....
You've mentioned that the woman's husband signed the birth certificate. My question is, what is it that caused the paternity of the child in the first place? Is her husband still in the picture or did he pack his bags and already set sail?
I can understand where you say that this woman is toxic. I have a pretty good idea that she may use the child as leverage, but there are ways for your husband to interact with the child and the child only. This might be something that you want to explore with your husband.
My only hope is that this person didn't try to get pregnant on purpose to weasel her way into your husband's life. That is more than unforgivable on her part... bringing a child into the world to cause strife and grief... and being malicious.
It is as hard to see one's self as to look backwards without turning around. -Thoreau