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Simba09 · 03-22-2010, 07:10 AM

Yes, I think she did try to do this on purpose. The short affair happened 2 years ago. We moved on w/our lives and I was starting to trust my husband. Our life was good! She recently contacted him by locating him via web to tell him she thought the baby was his and not her ALLEGED husband. The baby took the husband's last name. She told my husband she would be leaving her husband but I don't think she is married unless she was married in another country. I just know for me sticking around will be TOXIC. Anyone who manipulates a person is out for personal gain. It is all about the MONEY. She wants to make my life HELL. She will use the child as LEVERAGE. She asked my husband for a vacation w/ the three of them so he could get to know the child. My husband went around my back before telling me to see them at least 3 times. He says he was scared and unsure of what to do. He never thought in A MILLION years this would happen to him. This was his ONLY time outside of our marriage and as brief as it was (2 months) it caused ALOT of hurt, pan and now a life time relationship that was unexpected. This person has a different background and comes from a different walk of life. I am SICK! I'm really considering divorcing my husband although FAMILY ask me to hang in there and it will get better and I'll learn to except the child but right now I am over this whole thing. I can go on and on how GOOD I've been to my husband and the sacrifices I made to support him through his education and life since we started dating.

If I decide to stay I will take your advice on visitation.

03-22-2010, 07:10 AM	#7 (permalink)
Simba09 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 10	Re: Husband cheated and has a baby.... Yes, I think she did try to do this on purpose. The short affair happened 2 years ago. We moved on w/our lives and I was starting to trust my husband. Our life was good! She recently contacted him by locating him via web to tell him she thought the baby was his and not her ALLEGED husband. The baby took the husband's last name. She told my husband she would be leaving her husband but I don't think she is married unless she was married in another country. I just know for me sticking around will be TOXIC. Anyone who manipulates a person is out for personal gain. It is all about the MONEY. She wants to make my life HELL. She will use the child as LEVERAGE. She asked my husband for a vacation w/ the three of them so he could get to know the child. My husband went around my back before telling me to see them at least 3 times. He says he was scared and unsure of what to do. He never thought in A MILLION years this would happen to him. This was his ONLY time outside of our marriage and as brief as it was (2 months) it caused ALOT of hurt, pan and now a life time relationship that was unexpected. This person has a different background and comes from a different walk of life. I am SICK! I'm really considering divorcing my husband although FAMILY ask me to hang in there and it will get better and I'll learn to except the child but right now I am over this whole thing. I can go on and on how GOOD I've been to my husband and the sacrifices I made to support him through his education and life since we started dating. If I decide to stay I will take your advice on visitation.