Banff~
You know what? I REALLY like talking to you because there are so many deeper topics that you just "get." I would love to continue this discussion but since this is blown away's thread, I'm going to start another thread to continue the thought and the deeper concepts about infidelity and marriage, and then let this thread be about blown away--okay? I'll make a link to the new thread and post back here for reference:
Banff's Deeper Concepts on Marriage and Infidelity Thread