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Simba09 · 03-23-2010, 09:37 AM

Thanks for your support. Hopeful & Doubtful, Why was your husband communicating w/ the other party if you openly agreed to this arrangement. That is so hurtful. I'm afraid of all of that!

Mom of 3 Kids -Thanks for your advice. I have many things to consider and I'm not sure if 2weeks out from knowing I will have all the answers. I am trying to support my husband and I love my husband. We have no children. We have been trying to start our family for the past 3-4 years. I have had 4 miscarriages and the most recent being August 2009 - 18 weeks. We were working on trying again and now this...I would love for it to work out because I want a life w/ my husband. Despite his faults he has contributed greatly to my life as well. He is very sorry and tells me everyday if he could change that short period of time that he thought he was untouchable he would, but he cannot. I am planning to stay put for now until I can rap my head around all of this and figure out what I plan to do. This would be a BIG adjustment for me and I possibly have to move to another city. The only reason why I'm in this area is because of my husband's job. I work out of another city but work from home. Right now I don't want my H to EVER have contact with the 3rd party. I would rather her contact me for EVERYTHING and we discuss via SPEAKER PHONE etc. Those are my rules. I don't know how long this will work????????

03-23-2010, 09:37 AM	#10 (permalink)
Simba09 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 10	Re: Husband cheated and has a baby.... Thanks for your support. Hopeful & Doubtful, Why was your husband communicating w/ the other party if you openly agreed to this arrangement. That is so hurtful. I'm afraid of all of that! Mom of 3 Kids -Thanks for your advice. I have many things to consider and I'm not sure if 2weeks out from knowing I will have all the answers. I am trying to support my husband and I love my husband. We have no children. We have been trying to start our family for the past 3-4 years. I have had 4 miscarriages and the most recent being August 2009 - 18 weeks. We were working on trying again and now this...I would love for it to work out because I want a life w/ my husband. Despite his faults he has contributed greatly to my life as well. He is very sorry and tells me everyday if he could change that short period of time that he thought he was untouchable he would, but he cannot. I am planning to stay put for now until I can rap my head around all of this and figure out what I plan to do. This would be a BIG adjustment for me and I possibly have to move to another city. The only reason why I'm in this area is because of my husband's job. I work out of another city but work from home. Right now I don't want my H to EVER have contact with the 3rd party. I would rather her contact me for EVERYTHING and we discuss via SPEAKER PHONE etc. Those are my rules. I don't know how long this will work????????