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breakable · 03-24-2010, 10:49 AM

Update:
H just called on his break... I wasn't going to answer but I knew if I didn't it would make things worse.
He told me he can't believe how incredibly selfish I am. How unsupportive I am of things he wants...
He also said he doesn't appreciate the fact that I said I feel like a single mother when he works nights, but I really do.
He will wake up around 10, leave at 11:30, then when he gets home our daughter will be in bed.
I was doing all the parenting by myself, and not by his choice.

I feel this is escalading into something worse and am debating finding somewhere else to stay the night.
I honestly don't know what to do...

I don't feel I am being selfish. I feel if he would get his act together and stop being irresponsible he wouldn't be late to work, and he wouldn't have a problem doing this.

I feel he no longer wants to spend time with me, and I feel it is crucial we have more time to ourselves. We have that now, with naptimes and an early bedtime and what not...but that will be gone soon.
I will even be in bed before he gets home nightly, meaning I will see him about 2 hours everyday...

03-24-2010, 10:49 AM	#2 (permalink)
breakable Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Illinois Posts: 53	Re: I feel like everything just went down the drain... Update: H just called on his break... I wasn't going to answer but I knew if I didn't it would make things worse. He told me he can't believe how incredibly selfish I am. How unsupportive I am of things he wants... He also said he doesn't appreciate the fact that I said I feel like a single mother when he works nights, but I really do. He will wake up around 10, leave at 11:30, then when he gets home our daughter will be in bed. I was doing all the parenting by myself, and not by his choice. I feel this is escalading into something worse and am debating finding somewhere else to stay the night. I honestly don't know what to do... I don't feel I am being selfish. I feel if he would get his act together and stop being irresponsible he wouldn't be late to work, and he wouldn't have a problem doing this. I feel he no longer wants to spend time with me, and I feel it is crucial we have more time to ourselves. We have that now, with naptimes and an early bedtime and what not...but that will be gone soon. I will even be in bed before he gets home nightly, meaning I will see him about 2 hours everyday...