| | Re: High School Sweatharts - done after 13 years???
Thanks Deejo - been waiting to hear from you.
I understand the need to set the boundaries around this and I think I've made myself clear. However, I'm a bit confused by the "should not pursue but cant take myself out of the picture" thing.
"At this point, you are all but enabling it by taking yourself out of the picture."
And then later:
"Odds are, the less it becomes apparent that you pursue, need, or want her ... the more likely she is to find you attractive again."
I struggle soooooooo much with this one. How do you suggest I keep myself in the picture but at the same time - not pursue? This is what I am desperately trying to understand - She's on the way out, already talked about buying a car and getting a place of her own. I've told her I want to work on us and bring us to the next level. My life's in shambles anyways - may as well throw my fists at this guys face and see how that works out...