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kiwigirl · 04-01-2010, 04:05 PM

he is a very very nice guy, hes not a pushover thou he def doesnt let me tell him wot to do or nething. Ive always liked the bad boys which he is def not. we were together 3 years b4 we got married and lived together for 2 of them.
we had such a passionate relationship for a long time but looking bak i cant even remember when it slowley changed to wea it is nw. people keep telling me we should go to romantic things together and stuff but we do things together all the time and people tell me just to try sleep with him and once i start again the passion might come bak but i feel sick thinking about doing it with him, it just feels wrong.
we are going to see a counsellor but havent worked out when yet. he hasnt asked me many times why i wont sleep with him and i have told him i dont feel attracted to him and he always wants to know wot he can do to help but its nothing he can do. has anyone ever felt repulsed by doing it with there husband and then got the attraction back?

04-01-2010, 04:05 PM	#9 (permalink)
kiwigirl Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 57	Re: newlywed and lost attraction to husband he is a very very nice guy, hes not a pushover thou he def doesnt let me tell him wot to do or nething. Ive always liked the bad boys which he is def not. we were together 3 years b4 we got married and lived together for 2 of them. we had such a passionate relationship for a long time but looking bak i cant even remember when it slowley changed to wea it is nw. people keep telling me we should go to romantic things together and stuff but we do things together all the time and people tell me just to try sleep with him and once i start again the passion might come bak but i feel sick thinking about doing it with him, it just feels wrong. we are going to see a counsellor but havent worked out when yet. he hasnt asked me many times why i wont sleep with him and i have told him i dont feel attracted to him and he always wants to know wot he can do to help but its nothing he can do. has anyone ever felt repulsed by doing it with there husband and then got the attraction back?