You did the right thing by ending contact. Thats the 1st step to rebuilding any lost trust in your relationship. Rebuilding lost trust will take time and you may have some hurdles you have to clear, but it will happen. As long as you both love each other, given time things will come around.
I was in a similar situation with my wife once. She did not talk or text the OM, it was strictly email. It all came out, she ended contact and we are done with it. I still trust her completely as she does me. Best of luck to you and I hope this helps.
Originally Posted by Whole_Heartedly_Sorry
I don't know where to begin...