| | Re: Don't know what to do
Are you saying that you had sex with some guy you met when you lied to your husband about what you were doing and went to a pick up bar?
Just being clear on what it is you did and want out of your husband, your expectations of him.
His expectations will be based on what you did, hopefully you haven't spoonfed what happened or minimized it to him.
Telling your husband that you were not emotionally involved with the guy will not really help.
Please clarify about the level of sexual involvement you had with the guy.