Originally Posted by carmaenforcer
I went through a similar situation not long ago. My Wife and her sex issues had me ready to cheat to just stop it from being an issue.
I haven't yet because she finally came around for a bit and started giving me sex more regularly. Now, I'm the one that don't want it, just because what I'm getting is crap and I'm sick of explaining myself and talking about my feelings.
Like you I wish that women would just give it to us, when we want it, how we want it and then after that we can talk about what they want in return.
I wish I had better advice, but I will say this. I am all for going to a professionals if the Wife is not taking care of business. For instance, my Wife won't blow me so I will go to another to do it for me eventually. The only thing keeping me is money and time.
I must say I love your straigtforward style. I wish it was as easy as you would like it to be. Women have complicated emotions. They love talking about their feeling and your feelings. My favourite saying from my wife is " marriage is hard work". I am tired of it being hard work. I also want it to be pleasurable. I work my ass off, take care of the kids and the household. I must admit I just want some straight wild sex sometimes. WITH MY WIFE. After all why be in a monogomous relationship if it doesnt include sex.
If I ever get rich(I'm gettig close) I will send some money your way to "help" you.